Today is Small Successes Thursday over at catholicmom.com – a gentle reminder not only to not sweat the small stuff – but to celebrate even the smallest successes over the past week – because they add up. So, here’s what I’m celebrating. (One of my successes should be that I’m actually participating in this, after a slow recovery from the first time I did – which was a catastrophe.)
1) Although I contemplated removing my high heels during mass and chasing full-speed ahead and barefoot after my three-year-old track-star of son as he ran laps up, down and across the aisles in church, as the prayerfully giggling congregation was preparing to receive communion …
I did not.
I kept my shoes on.
I stood patiently and (may I add) rather calmly and only watched in horror as he dodged every outstretched hand and turned on his heels to run the other direction. Again and again. This almost counts for a two-fer, since I didn’t holler, “Get that little *&@%$!” That, my friends, is success. (With a dash of decorum, I might add.) And a special public-thank you goes to the brave usher who finally nabbed Cliff, legs still treading air.
2) Three times in this one week, I thought about what to make for dinner BEFORE my kids were crying that they were so hungry they were going to die. (AND, I didn’t remind them that they don’t even know what hunger is.)
3) And, I actually caught at least glimpses of three of the six races my kids were swimming at their meet last night. I missed the others because I was busy yacking on the pool deck. (Sue me, I’m desperate for adult conversation.) But if parenting was baseball, I’d be batting .500 and earning some serious cash. Cabrera’s average for 2011 was .344 and he raked in $20 million last year. I figure my average earns me a pedicure. Or a Snickers. Or a lick of a lollipop. Or something.
So what’s your success? (I, obviously, cannot include good swimming photos in mine.)
Small success… I MUST have had a couple. I got creative and initiated a painting project with all the kids yesterday. I found several creative and fun ways to entertain my 3 yr. old at the raining swim lessons for two straight days while maintaining a positive outlook (instead of ignoring the children’s morning arguments, pulling the covers over my head, and skipping lessons like I wanted). I cooked dinner with the 8 yr. old Tuesday, and actually let go of some control, let him do a significant portion of the tasks,and did not wig-out, but made supportive encouraging comments when he goofed stuff up. Folded two clean loads of laundry that were gathering dust on my couches (never mind that there are two loads still waiting and that the two folded loads are only 1/2 put away…)
Go Carla! Go! 🙂